As I mentioned before I am hiding away from real life in Miami, and for good reason the prospect of the routine and redundancy of a mind numbing, spirit killing job is not something anyone would rush to do but guess what I need the money. Thats beside the point, while here in the sunshine state there is one thing I do not understand and I am totally perplexed and befuddled and I am forced to come of my own, probably warped and subjective, conclusion. I speak of STRIPPERS!! .... now these are not the strung out, as I would simply put crash bad things you see in 'Copa' and its counterparts. NO. These are the girls every pre pubescent male have had one or three wet dreams about at least twice a week until they were 14. these woman are effing hottt, now with that said this is where I find myself lost and confused and when I am frequenting the strip club i find myself not joining the festivities but just trying to understand. Now soul searching in a strip club is not the best idea however so great is my confusion.
The reason, I find myself in mental rigor mortis and trapped in my thoughts, is because I honestly believe that these girls could have been anything else in the world rather than this degrading profession they have chosen. These girls are honestly some of the most beautiful entities I have had the pleasure of laying my eyes on and they are treating themselves like nothing more than a side of beef.( and i say this because in one of the strip clubs I went to evey hour the girls are alerted by a bell and hold hands and walk in front the patrons one after the other like a virtual meat market). So the question I pose is why do that, why take off your clothes for strange men to fondle your lady humps for dollar bills, why give totally nude lap dances where I the patron am allowed to do anything I want for the length of a song, and if I pay more I may get as it was refferred to a happy ending. I would like to know what unofrtunate event made these flawless, embodiments of physical femininity choose this 'job'.I am totally confused....
I am goin to try and attempt to answer these questions being as real as i possibly could. Now I know not everyone has had the same opportunities in life and what not and that is good and well but to me there are things everyone could do to overcome these. I am not going to harp on that any longer, I want to know what gave these girls such a distorted view of sex and sexual relations that they trivialised it into a dollar by dollar experience. This trivialisation and marginalisation of sex and its associated functions as a means to an end baffles me like few things have before( one of these things I admit is girls which I no longer try to understand but rather survive).
I have hence come up with a list of reasons that i am putting forward to answer my own questions:-\
1. Some of them were sexually molested at a tender age and like most porn stars have warped views on sex
2. Negative self image leading to low self esteem
3. Some were probably not given attention as a child and hunger for that attention that alluded them and seek this attention on stage and the cheering crowd.
4. Lack of opportunity coupled with financial issues( this I think is a weak reason because tey are a million things someone could do besides taking off their clothes but Ill offer it up anyway)
5. Materialism, fast cash and music videos( well media influence on impressionable youths)
6. Any and all combinations of the affore mentioned
Now attempting to answer your own questions only give you answers from your own 
perspective formed by your subjective experiences, this I know so to truly hear the other side and to understand this situation in its entirety I think I must interview a stripper. I think that is the only way this chronicle would be made whole and equilibrium brought to the universe.
perspective formed by your subjective experiences, this I know so to truly hear the other side and to understand this situation in its entirety I think I must interview a stripper. I think that is the only way this chronicle would be made whole and equilibrium brought to the universe.KILLADEV......
3 comments:
maybe you could interview several strippers (hmm that means more frequent visits to the strip club, but i doubt that will pose a problem lol) and you could get reasons #7,8 9 or even 10
ok..so..my aunt once sat and talked to a prostitute because she just genuinely wanted to know wtf goes through the mind of someone who degrades themselves to the extent of posing on corners and having sex (and other things) for money...the only thing I recall from her time with the prostitute was the following
"its just like any other job...you clean your work space and you keep working"...sad but true
As a joke many times in my ridiculous poverished state as a university student I have said,"hoss I feel i goin n strip by d club down d road unno...or i will just hadda f**k somebody for money..i have real who wud do it" (CALM DOWN PPL I SAID IT AS A JOKE)
Now as easily as this is said as a joke for someone who has some amount of morals, values, self esteem, pride and a decent education but struggling to find a proper job..imagine someone lacking all those qualities and needing a couple of dollars she can easily get under the table (ie no SIN card etc required)...and so they try out and make a couple hundred easy dollars
Like ppl involved in drugs when you "do it for a month just to get a lil money" the easy money becomes addictive and so they get caught up in this easy money lifestyle. Many ppl don't intend to make a career out of stripping but it becomes addictive.
and just as a side note..i have come across some hella ugly strippers b4 so lucky for u wherever u go that u get to see these good looking ones!!
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